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Posted on Jan 06, 2012 under Attitude, Believe, Challenges, Changes, Determination, Education, Examination, Hardwork, Information, Life, Mindset, Reflection, Taking action |
2012 has started and time surely moves swiftly as we move into the first weekend of the new year. How was your 2011? Has it been a great year where you have managed to fulfill all your 2011 resolution? Or has it been another year of more ‘it could have been’ and ‘if only.’ I certainly hope it was not the latter.
How about your results in your study? Did you get your desired results? I certainly hope so too. If you have not, fret not. It is not the end of the world. You might have lost a battle but you have not lost the war; just ensure that you do it better, not just any better but your very best. Give it all you have gotten and left no room for ‘it could have been’ and ‘if only.’ Life is too short for these.
One thing about study and in most things in life is that we can ‘think’ our way to good results or to get whatever we want morally. Bullshit! Yes, you are right in way, especially if we are talking about wishful thinking. Anyone can wishfully think himself/herself to good result and I can tell you right now that it will not happen. However, not everyone is willing to think to good result.
Thus, everyone can think to good result but not everyone is willing to do that. Most are just wishful thinking. You may ask me, “What do you mean by thinking to good result? Isn’t it the same as wishful thinking?” What I would like to clarify is that while you are thinking about getting good result, you are also thinking about how to get the good result and that will make all the differences.
And it is not enough to be thinking about getting good result. We will still have to take the final step – the very key step to getting there and that is to take massive action. Nothing will come through without massive action and this is the very different between thinking and wishful thinking. Without massive action, just thinking alone is just like wishful thinking.
Last night I asked two children if they are ready to change to change their results. Right now I have given you the key to getting good results. Are you gonna just hold on to the key and do nothing about it? Or are you gonna open the door to good result with that key. It is entirely up to you. As Albert Einstein said, “Insanity – doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result. Are you insane?
Posted on Jul 20, 2011 under Attitude, Education, Exam tips, Examination, Information, Inspiration, Mindset, Reflection, Scoring A, Strategies |
“Smart Students Wants to Get A1 in Exams, Poor Students want to Pass The Exams”
When you enter the exam hall, what is in your mind? What results do you expect you will get in this subject?
Some of you might think: “If I pass the exam, I’m happy already.”
Some might say: “Well, I just want to sustain my previous result. As long as I don’t fail.”
Or, “It will be great if I get an A2, but I think I am not going to make it.”
Or even “I have no idea. Depends on my fate.”
Guess what will a smart student think before he enters the exam hall?
“I WANT TO Get my A1, no matter how tough it is, no matter what it takes from me. I deserved to have my A1!”
In order to get an A1, the first criteria is how confident are you when you enter the exam hall. You must entertain the possibility to get an A1. Only in the right state you can have a calm mind to read the questions carefully and understand what the questions want.
Some students have the habit of asking friends around him what they have revised before entering the exam hall. Will that help you? Definitely no. Reason is when you ask around usually you will find that your friends have studied certain topics but you didn’t. Then you will start to panic. You will start to blame yourself why you forgot to study that topic. You will start to worry if the paper will come out the topic you can’t answer it. Everything becomes wrong. Your mind started to defocus. When you are in the exam hall you can’t read the questions properly. Not careful mistakes started to appear in your answer sheet.
Is that familar to you? It does not help you at all. It will only drive away your focus. You will focus on the place that you don’t want. Based on Law of Attraction, you are sending the negative energy to the universe and attract things that you don’t want. High chance it will happen in front of you.
Therefore, at least 30 minutes before the exam, you should start to prepare your mind to be in the right state for the exam. Tell yourself you are well-prepared for the exam. It does not matter how other people prepare for the exam. Walk into the exam confidently. You are thinking big. As what Anthony Robbin says, your state change your physiology. Your physiology change your energy. And your energy change your results!
Posted by Advocators Education on Monday, June 13, 2011
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Posted on Jul 08, 2011 under Attitude, Believe, Challenges in Life, Changes, Children, Empowering Ourselves, Hardwork, Information, Inspiration, Kids, Life, Reflection, Taking action, Turbocharge! workshop |
Just the other day when I was sending out some email to parents and students, I realised and reaffirmed an important point; that results come from a change in mindset and beliefs. What I observed in most of the students nowadays were not so much of the lack of ability but more of a mindset or belief that they cannot do it. During my time, it didn’t occur to us so much about our abilities or doubts if we could get the ‘A’s in our exams. Personally, I had a strong belief that as long as I studied hard, I would get good results.
True enough, my strong belief in studying hard translated directly into the good grades I had for Math, A Math, Physics and Chemistry in my O-Level examination. In fact in my A Math papers, for the first time in my life, I managed to finish it with ample time to spare to check through my papers. Even before the result was out for my A Math, I was already confident that I had gotten an ‘A’ for it.
As for my languages and humanity subject, the doubts and beliefs I had about myself translated to my not so impressive grades for both subjects. Even during my A-Level examination, I aced in my C Math and either Chemistry or Physics. As for my Further Mathematics, I only got a ‘C.’ It didn’t come as a surprise because I had not worked very hard for it and in fact I didn’t practice enough. Looking back at the efforts I put in the O-Level and A-Level exams, it is even clearer now the strong relationship between my belief in hardwork and results.
That is why in my email to the parents, I wrote, “The best gift we could give to them is the gift to first believe in their own abilities and then to take action.” It is not enough to just believe in their own abilities. The change in their results will come from the follow through action that they will be taking.
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As the saying goes, “Change your mind, change your world!” When we focus on the root of the issue, we not only nib the issue at its root, we also create a long-lasting solution. The good grades will follow.
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Posted on Jul 01, 2011 under Attitude, Education, Examination, Hardwork, Information, Inspiration, Math, PMR, Perseverance, Scoring A, Strategy, Taking action, Tips |
4 October 2011 is an important date for most if not all Form 3 students, as well as to parents, in Malaysia as it marks the first day of the PMR exam. Following in roughly a month’s time, on 14 November 2011, will the SPM exam. The heat is turning on super fast especially with each school’s PMR Trial exam starting in August and all the States’ Trials in the same month also. I believe if you ask some of the students or your children about the date, some of them would still tell you they don’t know. How could we fight a battle when we do not even know when the enemy is coming?
I do hope that after reading this post, you will put the date in BLOCK LETTER on a piece of paper where you can see it everyday and make your study plan. I remember asking a student previously if he knows how many topics there are altogether which he needs to prepare for PMR Math. He had no idea and most students would tell you they do not know too. There are altogether 29 Chapters from Form 1 to Form 3 and each of this chapter will appear either in Paper 1 or Paper 2. Some topics like Statistics, Graphs of Functions and Loci in Two Dimensions have been appearing in both Paper 1 and Paper 2 so far.
In fact, Topics like Statistics, Graphs of Functions and Loci in Two Dimensions are pretty easy to score especially if either your English or BM is good. However, in Math, you can make up for the poor understanding in language by practicing; the more you practice, the more you’ll see a pattern of how the questions are asked. All you need to do is to be extra careful when you are reading the questions. Are you aware of all these? And do you know that there are only 4 Loci in the Form 2 topic of Loci in Two Dimensions. All you need to know and remember are the different ways of how to describe each of the locus.
Thus, preparing for your PMR Math involves knowing little details like these, which will make it easier for you to study. What you would still need to do, especially in Math, is still to put what you know into practice. Getting an ‘A’ in Math could be this simple.
If you didn’t do well for your mid-year Math exam, you do not really need tuition. All you need to do is to find out which topics you are not doing well, clarify all the doubts with your friends or teachers, then put the new understandings into practice.
From today to the first day of PMR exam, there are about 90 days, which is about 3 months for you to prepare to ace it and you still have a very good chance. You first level up challenge will be your school’s trial exam which will be followed closely by your state’s trial exam. These two trial exams will actually help to prepare you for the actual PMR exam so start preparing for these two challenges first.
Is there really any secret to learning Math? If there is, are you willing to not only find out what the secret is but also willing to work on it. I remember a quotation from Anthony Robbins that goes something like, “Knowing and not applying is yet to know.” If you find out about the secret of anything, be it Math or Science, but if you do not make use of the knowledge that you acquired, then what good would that make or what difference would you be compared to another who doesn’t know the secret.
Before letting you in on the secret to learning math, promise me that you will make good use of it or you may stop reading from this point onward. And also promise me that you will share this secret with anyone who is finding it a challenge to learn Math. Albert Einstein said it best when he said, “It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” The key here is he stayed with his problems longer. There is something similar in what I have always shared with my kids, that I am not any smarter than them. The only reason why I am good in Math today is because of the past many years of experience accumulated from practicing. I did not particularly stayed longer with the problems like what Einstein did; I just did a lot of practice.
Malcolm Gladwell shared in his book Outliers about a video tape which Math Professor Alan Schoenfeld made of a woman named Renee as she was trying to solve a math problem. Renee was a nurse and wasn’t someone particularly interested in Mathematics. In the video, Renee was playing with a software program designed to teach algebra. And she was trying to figure out what numbers to enter in order to get the computer to draw a line that is absolutely vertical. She was trying to figure out the gradient for a vertical line. However, being someone who has not been a Math expert, she was finding it challenging to figure out the numbers.
When most students or people would have given up already, she stayed with the problem for twenty-two minutes before finally figuring out that a vertical line can be obtained by dividing any number by zero, which gives an undefined number and which means that the slope of a vertical line is undefined. I have seen students giving up attempt on Math questions in less than 2 minutes.
Most people would have thought that being good in Math is an innate ability; either you are good with Math or you’re not. But from the video made by Professor Schoenfeld, being good in Math could simply mean whether you are willing to try and stay with a problem for as long as twenty-two minutes. As Malcolm put it, “… it’s not so much ability as attitude.”
Quoting a paragraph from Outliers,
“Success is a function of persistence and doggedness and the willingness to work hard for twenty-two minutes to make sense of something that most people would give up on after thirty seconds.“
Thus the secret of learning Math is really nothing more than whether you are willing to work hard on it, which is what you have already been told umpteen times. However, have you already put it into practice?
Posted on Jun 22, 2011 under A Math, Attitude, Believe, Certificate, Challenges, Determination, Education, Examination, Inspiration, Math, PMR, Physics, Reflection, SPM, Science, Scoring A, Strategy, Taking action, Tips |
*Important note: Please note that this is a visualisation exercise for current students of visualising yourself getting the results that you want and working towards it.
What do you want to see in your PMR or SPM examination certificate? You may be asking me just what do I mean by asking you that question; it is not as if you can design your own certification. On the contrary, you have as much to say as you want to in your certificate. You can even ‘design’ the grades that you want to see on it; be it an ‘A’ for BM or an ‘A’ for Sejarah or an ‘A’ for Geografi or ‘A’ for both Math and Science. Or simply just straight ‘A’s for all subjects.
Stop reading at this very moment. Take out a piece of A4 size paper and start writing down all the subjects you are required to take for the PMR or SPM examination and create another column besides it and write down all the grades that you want in that column. Let me stress again – write down all the grades that you want to get in your examination. It is normal to doubt if you can really get all the grades that you want but just put it all down anyway. There is another more effective way to do it; find someone who has already gotten his/her PMR or SPM certificate, then make a photocopy of it and then erase the name on it and put down your own name. Then erase all the grades of that person and put down the grades that you want on that certificate.
After you are done, paste this certificate at a place where you can see very often and where your family can see it too so that they can remind you often. Do take this exercise very seriously as the moment you are doing this exercise, your grades are already changing.
Now that you are done with that simple exercise, let us talk about putting that ‘designed’ certification into reality. Putting that grades on your photocopied certificate is a way of wishing or hoping that you will really get all that grades. There is a different between just wishing and hoping for it to happen and working effortlessly towards it. If you are doing the topic of Probability in Form 5 A Math, you would know that the Probability of just wishing for the straight ‘A’s is as good as zero.
However, if you start building foundation to that wish of yours, you have a much higher chance of making it real just as Walt Disney built the foundation to his dream of Disneyland. And what do I mean by building the foundation to your wish? Simply put, I am talking about putting in the extra hard work and taking action in your study, especially in the subjects which you are not doing well now. Put in as much effort, if not more, as you had in your Dota, or Facebook game or anything which you are already doing very well in. When it comes to Mathematics, the hard work or effort is synonymous to practicing; do as much past year questions as you can.
If you are willing to put in this effort, you will surely see a big improvement in your results unless you are using the wrong strategy in solving. Change your strategy and you will be back on track. Wishing and hoping that you will really see all the ‘A’s that you want to in your PMR or SPM certificate in 2011.
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Posted on Jun 17, 2011 under A Math, Attitude, Challenges, Determination, Education, Empowering Ourselves, Inspiration, Kids, Math, Perseverance, Reflection, SPM, Scoring A, Strategy, Study Habit, Tips |
Most of you would know where the picture on the right came from. Yes! It was my brother’s more than 20 years old Casio calculator but he had since passed it to me more than 20 years ago. This calculator had been through numerous examinations with me and have never failed me. Casio, are you still making good calculator like this anymore? Alright, I got digress! Back to my main point for this post!
Just the other day I was marking some A Math assignments in Trigonometry and Function by a student that I got quite pissed off; my blood was literally boiling. And for a very good why I should be pissed off: she has been giving me the same not careful mistakes again and again; it was (x – 3) in one moment and then when she copied it to the next part of the question, it became (x + 3) and everything was not right after that.
The very reason I was so pissed is because she knew exactly how to do the question. She followed the right strategy and steps in solving the Function question but she gave away marks to these kind of not careful mistakes. Trigonometry is a bigger challenge to her at this point but it will get better for sure with more practice. Right now she needs to take care of a few fundamental issues first which is crippling her progress in A Math. We will work together to take down these issues one by one. There is not much time to lose before she takes her Trial Examination follows by her SPM examinations at the end of the year.
On Wednesday while I was coaching her, we talked about her dream to study Aeronautical Engineering. I asked if she really has the passion in doing it. Depending on the fields of study which she will pursue in Aeronautical Engineering, whether she likes it or not, she will have to deal with higher Mathematics. In fact, in most engineering course, she will need to take higher mathematics. And thus it is important to build her foundation well now. I told her if Aeronautical Engineering is really her passion, then she will surely find all ways to break down all the challenges to get there.
She shared with me that she doesn’t hate A Math, it’s just that she can’t seem to understand it. I wasn’t surprising she couldn’t seem to understand it. In Mathematics, we not only have to understand the concept, we also have to practice; which is the thing she has not been doing yet. And being a kinesthetic person, who learn best by doing, then all the more she needs to practice. Just as a question I have always asked her, “How did you remember all the lyrics?” She told me she just sung them again and again and again. She responded that if only A Math was like singing. I said, “Why not? I am not stopping you. If you find that by singing it out you can remember, then by all mean sing it out!”
However, the more important thing is whether her passion lies in being an Aeronautical Engineer or is it just a fleeting thought. I told her to seriously think about what is her passion in or what she likes to do. We always share with the kids and their parents that the sooner they find their dreams and passions in life, the faster they will get there. It is thus very important for them to keep asking themselves what they want. And now a question to you, “What are your dreams or passions in life?”
Posted on Jun 13, 2011 under Attitude, Believe, Challenges, Dealing with Adversity, Determination, Education, Examination, Inspiration, Math, PMR, Perseverance, Reflection, SPM, Science, Scoring A |
Today marks the official school reopening for most of Malaysian’s students. Are all of you ready for the new semester and for the new challenges that will be coming up? I guess I would hear the loudest ‘NO.’ Yes, I do agree with all of you tha you’re not ready yet and who is? The fact is that we can never be readied. There would not be a next time when we are readied; the time is now! So embraced yourself for an exciting journey into the second semester of 2011.
School reopening also signifies ‘Judgement Day’ for most of you as you would be getting your results for the mid-year examination starting today. How did you do for your mid-year examination? Did you pass it with flying colours? I’m very sure some of you would be delighted with the results you are getting while others would be disappointed. Well done to all who had done well for your examination and for those who did badly or not so well, it is time to buck up; you might have lost this battle, but you have yet to lose the war!
Crazy as it may sound, it is still highly possible to reclaim your ‘As‘ in the final year examination. Who has the say to your result at the end of the day? Who is responsible for your result at the end of the day? Make a smart guess? I believe that most of you will agree that YOU and ONLY YOU can change the marks or grades that you are seeing in your report card. One of the most common answers I got for this was “It is impossible!”
Quoting something from Master Yoda in Star Wars, “This is why you failed!” Indeed, the question is not in the possibility because it is possible for most students to get good results. The questions are whether you want it or not and whether you are willing to work for it. How many of us have really put in extraordinary hard work in the things which we want to be better in? If we had and we are still not getting the results that we hoped for, then it could probably be a wrong method we were using. Otherwise, there would be no case where we had put in the hard work and we are not getting great result.
We are almost done with the PMR Power Revision for Math and Science. From what I observed of the student, he has a good understanding of Math. The key issue is in the lack of practice. Without practice, he does not see a broad varieties of questions for each topic. When a question is twisted a little, he wasn’t able to solve it. And he was always telling me that it is impossible to score ‘A’ for his Math and Science. He is right as he is ‘not willing’ or does not want it badly enough to put in the effort to practice.
Most of you have been taught the basic. The next thing to do is to put in a little effort to remember the basic. I know you do not like memorizing. Neither do I. How else can we remember something? Through practicing of course. When we do practice, especially for Math and Science, the basic and concept will eventually be ‘drilled’ into our head.
It is just the start of the new semester and it is highly possible for all of you to perform much better. The question I now ask you is, “Are you willing to work towards it?”
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The Man Who Thinks He Can
by Walter D. Wintle – Poems That Live Forever, comp. Hazel Felleman 1965
If you think you are beaten, you are;
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you’d like to win, but think you can’t
It’s almost a cinch you won’t
If you think you’ll lose, you’re lost,
For out in the world we find
Success begins with a fellow’s will;
It’s all in the state of mind.
If you think you’re outclassed, you are.
You’ve got to think high to rise.
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.
Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man;
But sooner or later the man who wins
Is the one who thinks he can.
Posted on May 13, 2011 under A Math, Attitude, Challenges in Life, Children, Education, Information, Inspiration, Math, PMR, Physics, Reflection, Science, Scoring A, Study Habit, Wisdom |
With the PMR and SPM coming up in just a few months time, are you all geared up? I believe that most students are still in a very relax mood. There are good and bad in this; the good is they would not get too stress up because of the examination, the bad is they are so relax that they are totally not preparing for it. I think extreme of both cases are not good. I believe that there should be balanced – a time to study hard and a time to play as hard. The key to this balance is knowing how to manage your time.
With proper planning, you can easily breeze through PMR and SPM.
In this coming holiday, Advo will be running a special Power Revision Workshops (PR) for PMR’s Math and Science and for SPM’s A Math and Physics. PR is a 6 days workshop, totaled 48 hours in all. Each session will be from 9.00am – 5.00pm.
The objective of the workshop is to cover all topics for PMR Math and Science from Form 1 to Form 3 and SPM A Math and Physics from Form 4 to Form 5 by June; meaning the students would be readied to take their PMR Math and Science and SPM A Math and Physics examination after the 6 days workshops. One thing which we notice in students today is that they lack practice and practice is key to subjects like Math and Science. With enough practice, I strongly believe that most students will be able to get much better grades if not ‘A.’
Through our coaching experience, most students have the ability to do much well in their study but either they are too lazy to practice or they have been ‘conditioned’ in such a way from school that they are bad in Math and Science. The latter is more detrimental to students as it requires a full shift in perspective.
Thus, after the PR in June, the second objective is to get the students to start practicing past year question papers as well as trial exam papers. Through practicing the papers, they would surely gain a lot more confident and start seeing Math and Science as fun and easy subjects. And most importantly, to see that they are actually good in Math and Science.
In addition to the above, when students have already mastered Math and Science, they can put in more time for their other subjects. With more time on the other subject and making use of the strategies we would be sharing with them in the workshop, I strongly believe that their results will be outstanding!
However, there are limited seats available for the workshop; we are only taking a maximum of 10 students for each subject and there is a strict selection process. We will only choose students who are 100% committed to making a different in their own results because we will be 100% committed to help them achieve the results that they truly deserve!
For an appointment for our evaluation process for your child, you can contact us now at: 016 7739363.
Lets work together to make learning fun and easy for your child!